Can a nice guy finish first?

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I see myself as an easy going, and fun loving guy. I am mainly a dinner and a movie type, either out or at home with popcorn. I like being with friends. Openness and honesty will be critical drivers in my next relationship. We must be comfortable speaking from our hearts and be able to share whats really on our minds. It just doesn't make any sense to be dishonest in love because when you make a fool of your partner, you make a fool of yourself, I mean, being that this person is supposed to be a part of you and all, you know? There can be no love without this. Anyway that how I see it. I am very affectionate and it is a drag when people pull away.

I love dark jazz bistros with good bands and good food. I'm open to most types of music including pop, RB of both today and yesterday, and especially 80's. I love all sort of movies as long as they’re well done. I am a very driven guy both professionally and personally. I believe that most people will say that they haven't known me to half-do anything. I can promise that when a woman has won my heart, she will receive no less than 110% + interest that’s compounded daily. After all, love should grow over time.

I have a secure career and do very well. I also continue to strive to do better. But most importantly I have come to be proud and happy with what I have and not all consumed with obtaining things. At this age, my attention has turned to fulfillment of the heart, and this is where I believe the right woman could plug herself in, let herself believe and see the difference between that which I am "bringing:, and of which a player might be "selling". I believe that the world in itself is way too cynical. We have to be ready to let love in. And most important, we have to recognize and embrace the possibilities when they present themselves, and not run them off with that repellant called baseless doubt.

Many of us who find themselves single in our 40’s have had our share of disappointment. But we can’t let yesterday use up today.

Sign

Pisces

My Body Type Is

Fit

My Height Is

6' 0 (1.83 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

African American

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Legs

Body Art

Strategically Placed Tattoo

My Hair Is

Bald

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Self-employed

My Speciality Is

Computers / Electronic

My Job Title Is

IT Consultant / Graphics Designer

I Make This Much In A Year

$60,000USD To $74,999USD

I Live

With Roomate(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

Yes - Socially

I Drink

No

Back In High School, I Was A

Nerd

My Social Behavior Is

Comedic, Friendly, Observant

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Computers, Cooking, Dining, Internet, Learning, Movies, Music, Sports, Theater, Travel

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Going Shopping, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Playing Dress-up, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things

An Ideal First Date Would Be

A quiet place where we can focus on one another.

I've Always Wanted To Try

exploring caves

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

I Attend Services

Once A Month

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

Is to live, love and enjoy with a minimum of chaos and drama.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Friendly, Slapstick

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies, Sports, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Animation

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Ambient, Classical, Jazz, Pop, Rap, Soul, I'm A Recording Artist

When I Read, I Always Read

Computers, Humor, Instructional, Mystery, Philosophy, Science, Science Fiction

My Idea Of Fun Is

Snorkeling, JetSki, BackYard BBQ

What Do You Find Attractive?

Empathy, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Oddities, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

What Do You Look For?

Someone motivated, energetic, passionate, positive and open.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Date, Intimate, Committed