Curious Soul Seeking Genuine Connection
Wanderflustmuse
New York, New York | Woman Seeking A Man
Basic Information
First name
Rolanda
I Can Speak
English, Spanish
I Would Describe Myself As
I’m a proud blend of cultures, with a Venezuelan, French, and Chinese mother and a West Indian father, which has shaped my love for diversity and exploration. I’m also a mother to two incredible daughters, aged 26 and 21, who are now forging their own paths away from home.
As an educator by trade and entrepreneur at heart, I’m passionate about creating, learning, and making a positive impact. I have a deep wanderlust and love traveling, exploring new places, and immersing myself in other cultures—it’s where I feel most alive and connected.
When I’m not on the move or embracing the arts and culture scene—whether it’s theater, live music, or a captivating exhibit—you’ll find me at home painting, writing, or indulging in a thought-provoking documentary (glass of wine in hand, of course). Life, to me, is about passion, creativity, and the stories we create along the way.
I’m seeking a mate who is emotionally intelligent, kind, thoughtful, loyal, confident, and expressive. Someone who is witty, outgoing, and enjoys exploring life’s adventures. Most importantly, I value a partner I can learn from—someone smart who inspires growth and connection as we create meaningful memories together.
As an educator by trade and entrepreneur at heart, I’m passionate about creating, learning, and making a positive impact. I have a deep wanderlust and love traveling, exploring new places, and immersing myself in other cultures—it’s where I feel most alive and connected.
When I’m not on the move or embracing the arts and culture scene—whether it’s theater, live music, or a captivating exhibit—you’ll find me at home painting, writing, or indulging in a thought-provoking documentary (glass of wine in hand, of course). Life, to me, is about passion, creativity, and the stories we create along the way.
I’m seeking a mate who is emotionally intelligent, kind, thoughtful, loyal, confident, and expressive. Someone who is witty, outgoing, and enjoys exploring life’s adventures. Most importantly, I value a partner I can learn from—someone smart who inspires growth and connection as we create meaningful memories together.
Sign
Pisces
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Fit
My Height Is
5' 5 (1.65 m)
My Eyes Are
Black
My Ethnicity Is
Other
My Marital Situation Is
Divorced
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Lips
My Hair Is
Auburn / Red
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
Yes
Status
My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Education / Academic
My Job Title Is
Special Education Teacher
I Make This Much In A Year
$75,000USD To $99,999USD
I Live
Alone
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Quiet One
My Social Behavior Is
Friendly, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Dining, Exercising, Arts & Crafts, Music, Movies, Theater, Travel
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Trying New Things, The Movies, Drinking, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be
An ideal first date is one that feels natural, allows for meaningful conversation, and fosters a sense of connection. For me, it could be:
A cozy wine bar or café where we can talk and get to know each other.
A cultural experience, like visiting an art gallery or attending a live music performance, blending conversation with shared interests. A leisurely stroll through a scenic park, paired with good conversation and perhaps an impromptu coffee stop. Something fun and interactive, like a cooking or painting class, where we can share laughs and creativity. The key is creating an environment where we can be ourselves, enjoy each other’s company, and leave feeling like we’ve truly connected.
A cozy wine bar or café where we can talk and get to know each other.
A cultural experience, like visiting an art gallery or attending a live music performance, blending conversation with shared interests. A leisurely stroll through a scenic park, paired with good conversation and perhaps an impromptu coffee stop. Something fun and interactive, like a cooking or painting class, where we can share laughs and creativity. The key is creating an environment where we can be ourselves, enjoy each other’s company, and leave feeling like we’ve truly connected.
I've Always Wanted To Try
I’ve always dreamed of living in an exotic place off the beaten path, immersing myself in its culture and rhythms. Backpacking across Europe is another adventure I’d love to embrace, wandering through historic streets and hidden gems. Exploring an enchanting and vibrant continent like Africa is high on my bucket list—it’s the kind of journey that feeds the soul.
I’m also drawn to the elegance and artistry of playing the guitar or piano, ballroom dancing-imagining the joy of gliding across a dance floor, losing myself in the music, and sharing that connection with a partner. Life is about embracing these dreams and turning them into unforgettable experiences.
I’m also drawn to the elegance and artistry of playing the guitar or piano, ballroom dancing-imagining the joy of gliding across a dance floor, losing myself in the music, and sharing that connection with a partner. Life is about embracing these dreams and turning them into unforgettable experiences.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly
Views
My Religion Is
Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services
Once
My Political Views Are
Middle Of The Road
My Goal In Life Is
I will tell you later…
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Documentaries, Dramas, Instructional, Movies, Reality Shows
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Animation, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Country, Rap, Rock, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, New age, Soul, Reggae, Folk
When I Read, I Always Read
News, Biography, Health, History, Philosophy, Political
My Idea Of Fun Is
My idea of fun is immersing myself in experiences that spark joy and create meaningful memories. Whether it’s exploring a new city, discovering hidden cultural gems, or backpacking through breathtaking landscapes, I find excitement in the adventure of it all.
I love diving into the arts—attending theater performances, live music events, or strolling through art galleries. At home, fun might look like painting, writing, or getting lost in a captivating documentary with a glass of wine.
I also enjoy trying new things, like ballroom dancing, indulging in unique cuisines, or simply having great conversations that inspire laughter and connection. For me, fun is about living passionately and embracing life’s vibrant moments.
I love diving into the arts—attending theater performances, live music events, or strolling through art galleries. At home, fun might look like painting, writing, or getting lost in a captivating documentary with a glass of wine.
I also enjoy trying new things, like ballroom dancing, indulging in unique cuisines, or simply having great conversations that inspire laughter and connection. For me, fun is about living passionately and embracing life’s vibrant moments.
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Wit, Flirtatiousness, Power, Money, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For?
I’m drawn to a man who embodies confidence and emotional intelligence—someone who is authentic, self-assured, and comfortable in his own skin. I admire a masculine energy balanced with kindness and a genuine understanding of others.
A quick thinker who can adapt to any situation, he’s culturally aware and open-minded, embracing diversity and new experiences. Above all, he’s thoughtful, understanding, and values meaningful connections as much as I do.
A quick thinker who can adapt to any situation, he’s culturally aware and open-minded, embracing diversity and new experiences. Above all, he’s thoughtful, understanding, and values meaningful connections as much as I do.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Intimate, Committed